Taking Care Of Business
It is interesting to note how women take marriage as a business deal, while men never seem to grasp this about marriage. Women conceal their intentions of this idea, under a deception of "love" and "romance", and dupe men accordingly, and men, of course, find out too late what a raw deal they got. Stories are legion of men realizing that they have surrendered everything they own, will own, or want to own to the woman and the state once they get married - at least here in the US. There is one reason you should decide to form a business deal or contract with a women, okay, maybe two, but let's focus on the basics first - that is when you want to produce children (at least until artifical wombs are created, but for now, you got to rent a womb from a woman to have kids). Note, I am not even talking about marriage here, I bet you could actually draw up some legal arrangement of cohabitation or non-cohabitation even, and the production of children by a woman and yourself and possibly by-pass the marriage concept. Consider yourself Corporation A and the woman Corporation B, both need the raw materials supplied by each [not just sperm and eggs, but time, money, etc., in producing (raising) the product (child) ] to a complete product - a fully grown adult. If one or the other corporation involved screws up during this process, then you get bad product (children) on the market (society) - and this should a primary concern to both parties involved and should be contain in the business deal between these corporations and have appropriate corrective actions in place for this that fixes the offending corporation - not just indiscrimately punishing one corporation (read male) as you would find in a US divorce court. Now, consider the amount of bad product (children) on the market (society) due to women really duping men and screwing them overall royally with the sweet deal they get by divorcing men in a marriage -the product (children) turn out like crap, causing a lot of quality problems overall for other non-interested corporations (read single men such as myself that live grand lifestyles and such) in having to deal with wild children running amuck and ultimately have to relocate our corporations (single men) overseas - costing us valuable time and money, and then consider why men should seriously take a business contract approach when forming any relationship with a women. Marriage in its presence form and legal framework should NOT even be considered in the US by men - this is business now kids, you need to play to win and protect yourself. I am not even taking about other issues which can also royally screw a man over by a woman - false rape, paternity fraud, etc. This even further emphasizes more why a man should treat any personal or serious relationship with a woman as a business venture, and to take care of business accordingly. Kills all the love and romance, doesn't it. Good. About time men started using the right head.
Our Station Chief Reports In
Greece being ideally centered to get accurate information on Eastern European women, which I was curious myself to know about, since I have heard they are better than Western European women, I left my traveling partner over in Greece - aka - station chief (not that he minded, he hates coming back to the US) to collect info for me, and so the report follows:
Russian women will leave their husbands after about 2 years according to the Russian men immigrating into Greece.
Romanian women are the same as Russian women.
Yugoslavian (Former Yugoslav Republic) and Bulgarian women are loyal to their men, and Greek men are marrying these women due to the influx of these women immigrating into Greece, and the fact Greek women are crap.
Greek women are pretty much crap in Athens and other larger cities in Greece, as I have reported before, which our station chief confirms again, but the Greek women in the villages are tolerable - not the best - but tolerable.
Cyprus - no report. However, Cypriot women I have met in the US and in Europe are pretty traditional and tolerable.
So there you go.
Perspective 50Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
Sometimes I think the purpose of adulthood is to survive what your parents did to you (even well intended ones.) Those things can run from the horrid -- abuse -- to the mundane, such as not being as neat as your father or mother.
What's really frightening -- and I think everyone but orphans go through this -- but you will say something and you'll think "oh my God, that's my mother talking, or my father talking" and you realize they are programmed in you....mom and dad, whether alive or not, are still lurking in there....
Perspective 49Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
Women who think men like to chase them had better run real slow or they'll be no one there. This is pure female fiction. And so is the other pathetic analogy women use, that they are the best fruit so they make men work hard and climb to the top to get them... climbing to the top is STUPID because you can fall down and kill yourself, and worse, the top really ain't no better than the bottom so one expends all the time and effort for nothing. Ya know, in the winter time one often see fruit still hanging on the top branches, just like single old women who were too snooty to enjoy life.
Perspective 48Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
Women are very easy to give up because they are so difficult to start with. One misses the sex but one does not miss the nagging. It is a very acceptable trade off. There comes a point in every man's life in which he realizes the sex he is getting is not worth the headaches that come with it, and THAT is when she begins to realize men aren't dating her as much.
The problem is women are extremely difficult to get along with. I simply just don't go there any more. I really only date once every few years. Women would change your DNA if they could. As the old Irish saying goes, women can't let a man have a pipe and a mug in peace. THAT is why I am a bachelor and why I will stay a bachelor: I don't like taking orders.
Perspective 47Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
There was a fellow in the 70s --Dr. Herb Goldberg -- who wrote a book called the Hazards of Being Male. I saw him lecture once and he was very funny. One of his illustrations was this (now remember this was 30 years ago when men weren't penalized for being male or romantic.)
(Paraphrasing Goldberg) If a man saw his dream lady walking down the street he would do any thing...ANYTHING to meet here. He will follow her, he will find out where she works, he will find out where she shops, he will bribe waiters... he will do almost anything to meet her.
If a woman sees her dream man walking down the street she thinks "why isn't the bastard noticing me?"
Nowdays I never make the first move because I see no point in irritating her or wasting my time. If she is interested she will let me know, and when she does we will be a heck of a lot farther down the road than if I do the inquiring.
Perspective 46Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
He and she have similar goals, to reproduce. Marriage gives her a better chance at getting her children to reproductive age. Marriage give him a better guarantee that his labors are for his children, thus his children also have a better chance to live to reproductive age.
Love, sex, friendship and emotional bonding are all available from the same sex so those really aren't really unique to marriage. Monks are emotionally bonded to each others. Lesbians say only a woman knows how to really make love to a woman et cetera. Some of us would never marry some of our friends, and we can love platonically.
And don't believe the saying that two can live as cheap as one. They can, if one doesn't eat.
Heterosexual love USED to be the masculine experience meeting the feminine temperament. Now days it is more like the masculine experience meeting the masculine temperament. That explains why I am single: too few women who are female psychologically. Thus I borrow their female bodies and ignore their masculine personalities. If I did run into a woman who was psychologically a female I would be tempted to linger because they aren't too common in the West these days... and one reason why men go to the Orient for brides. It is not an equality thing.. I think women should be equal -- it is an issue of being feminine. Western women are female but they ain't too feminine these days.
So marriage is out and highly unlikely.
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Perspective 45Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
Marriage to me, now, means harrassment, and expense. It would be nice if love were involved but women have the gene that demands they change men, and I am quite happy the way I am.
God, do they try and change you. If you let them they will change your friends, your house, your car, your clothes, your eating habits, your sleeping habits, your hair style, where you vacation, your underwear even what condoms you use. It's psychological rape. I don't need that. Women are like relatives, nice to visit for a while, but I don't want one permanently.
Let's Just Be Friends
You should be telling this to American women, and not them telling it to you. I always end up saying "Let's just be friends" to those desperate career chicks, because there is no way I would engage in the mess they have made of their lives by actually dating them. The occasional date is tolerable, and I won't complain if I get some action, but for a potential girlfriend - I won't be getting on that train. And talking about trains...talk about train wrecks. Burned out on their careers, no boyfriend or husband in site, them actually having to pay bills for themselves, supporting some kids by themselves [I never date single moms and you should never either], and of course, their cats - no way people - let Mr. Chivalrous do his job and clean up that mess, I'll be miles away being totally socially irresponsible - translation - doing the stuff I enjoy paying no attention to the disaster these chicks have brought upon themselves.
Perspective 44Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
Two or three American women in a group is two or one too many. American women in groups form a battle line when approached by a man, then complain later about how men do not approach them anymore when out on the town. Conversely, a solo women does not. Hence, I rather meet a women that is alone in a public place. Moreover, it makes no difference, older American women are just as bad as the younger ones when they are with their friends. Worse even...the young ones are just nasty, the older ones flatly tell you to get lost.
And American women haven't a clue...they complain about not meeting men but they do all the things counter productive to meeting men and when told how easy it is to meet men they make all kinds of excuses, such as "I've got to be with my girlfriends."
Fine, date one of your girlfriends, and stop complaining you can't find a date or a "good" man.
Now for this " intimidated" or "scared" by a "strong independent woman" crap that American women say men are these days. No, not intimidated or scared, that is feminist garbage. If I am not intimidated or scared by a strong man I most certainly will not be intimidated or scared by a strong independent woman. What nonsense. And look...two thirds of America is obese. I'd rather date one woman at a time, not one woman who weighs enough for two. I also think women are just more nasty than they used to be. Men are just sick of American women being ugly towards men. How many times does one have to walk though a manure pile before one realizes it isn't worth the trip? Hence, the American male diaspora to settle down with foreign women occurring via the expat communities abroad. American women can enjoy their cats.
My attitude is if she is interested she will let you know. Otherwise, stay clear of her. Life is too short to put up with nasty American women, especially those traveling in packs of two or more.
I truly think women don't have a clue. Men are driven -- and that is the right word -- driven to want them, but women have become such bad company here in America that men are overcoming that drive and saying no thank you. We have record low proposals, marriages and record high divorces. Men are voting on the woman's movement with their feet and the tally is less of them are willing to walk through that pile of manure.
Perspective 43Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
Males are second-class citizens now...on their way to third class after the household dog. I can't remember the last time I saw or heard a commercial in which "Dad" wasn't some kind of idiot.
Moreover, men are fast becoming the under-educated class in America. Women speak of glass ceilings. The majority of men coming up, won't even be allowed in the corporate building let alone be held down by the glass ceiling. And frankly, that is going to drive up crime, and rape, and beatings because men angry from not being able to earn a living will be violent. The feminists will have created their own prophesy, oppress men then say how bad they are.
Half the boys who start school in the US don't finish. It is a national disgrace we are ignoring because it is only politically correct to focus on girl issues.Editor's comments: Whereas I agree with our guest connaisseur on this issue, I believe we are also seeing a paradigm shift of the education of boys, with the internet fast becoming the "entrepreneurial" form of education for them, and providing rapid access to information of all types far beyond what traditional public or private education could ever offer. This will produce a tech-elite of young men that breakthrough and break apart the mundane, the out-dated, and the failed education system in America, and will create a whole new class of intelligentsia of young men.
Perspective 42Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
The American woman's disregard for males is wide and deep, starting with the educational system, aided by the communication institutions, and capped by the judicial system.
I have often joked women my age are married and hate men, single and hate men, married with children and hate men, or single with children and hate men.
Women that are married and like men is a small group but spoken for, and the smallest group of all is single childless women who like men.
The Preventive Mind
If one thing men fail to understand is the preventive mind. There are way too many men with the reactionary mind - men reacting to all types of stuff they cause, which could have been prevented, but aren't, because men simply fail to think and plan ahead. Any smart business man knows to think and plan ahead to insure the survival of his company, and even with this, he is never 100% sure what the market has in store for his business, but rarely do we see this type of thought process of preventive actions take hold in men in ordinary everyday life. Examples are legion - men still getting married despite the astronomical divorce rate, the fact a man can lose everything in divorce...eh, you know the rest about that, failure to protect one's assets from lawsuits and other claims, failure to take care of one's health and well being, etc. What the hell is the matter people? The preventive mind is quite simple. It is a thought process, a systematic methodology to insure you avoid situations that would bring disaster upon yourself now and in the future. Always ask yourself "what if" this or that occurred and what is the probably it will. By analyzing the risk of disaster of every important and even not so important endeavor in your life, you can prevent a lot of shit from happening to you.
Perspective 41Our Guest Connaisseur writes:
Women are not men. Every time they try to behave like a man there will be a price to pay, of some kind, some where, some how. Women who join the military like men get killed like men rather than surviving conflicts. Women who work like men get paid more but have more stress related health problems. Women who have sex like men end up being more pregnant than woman who have sex like ladies. Women who think like sires have more abortions than women who think like mothers.
Women are women, men are men, they have their ways. And when cross overs happen, there is a personal price to pay.
Winston Churchhill On Islam- From A Speech In 1899
Little has changed in 107 years... "How dreadful are the curses which Mohammedanism lays on its votaries! [followers] Besides the fanatical frenzy, which is as dangerous in a man as hydrophobia [rabies] in a dog, there is this fearful fatalistic apathy. The effects are apparent in many countries. Improvident habits [neglecting to provide for the future] slovenly systems of agriculture, sluggish methods of commerce, and insecurity of property exist wherever the followers of the Prophet rule or live. A degraded sensualism deprives this life of its grace and refinement; the next of its dignity and sanctity. The fact that in Mohammedan law every woman must belong to some man as his absolute property, either as a child, a wife, or a concubine, must delay the final extinction of slavery until the faith of Islam has ceased to be a great power among men. Individual Moslems may show splendid qualities, but the influence of the religion paralyses the social development of those who follow it. No stronger retrograde [backward] force exists in the world. Far from being moribund [near dead] Mohammedanism is a militant and proselytizing faith. It has already spread throughout Central Africa, raising fearless warriors at every step; and were it not that Christianity is sheltered in the strong arms of science, the science against which it had vainly struggled, the civilization of modern Europe might fall, as fell the civilization of ancient Rome."-Sir Winston Churchill (The River War, first edition, Vol. II, pages 248-50 (London: Longmans, Green & Co., 1899).